There’s something that’s been on my mind lately: the best gifts you can give. Spoiler alert: they’re not found on Amazon, and I’m not just saying that because I’m a vintage fashion lover and small seller advocate.
Are you being deluged by emails warning you that the clock is ticking down to Christmas delivery deadlines? The pressure to find the perfect gift is on. But the best gift can’t be found with a quick click and a two-day shipping promise.
When did giving become so… impersonal?
When you give vintage and secondhand items you give history, and you give something much more personal. I remember finding a 1960s tapestry handbag at a flea market, and it immediately reminded me of a friend of mine. It was vibrantly colorful and quirky—just like her. When she unwrapped it she had tears in her eyes. I could tell she felt seen and appreciated.
A scene from a Brrrzaar, one of Spokane’s all-local winter art markets (image courtesy of Terrain)
And let’s talk about handmade items for a second. There’s a raw authenticity in something crafted by human hands. I’ve met some incredible small sellers who pour their souls into their work. When you buy from them, you're not just supporting a business; you’re lifting up a dreamer. Isn’t that a better story than clicking “Add to Cart” on a faceless website?
I get that shopping secondhand or supporting small sellers can feel daunting. Maybe you're worried about the quality, or you just don’t know where to start. But trust me, it’s worth the adventure! Browsing thrift shops or local markets can feel like treasure hunting. You never know what gems you might uncover, and the excitement of finding that perfect piece is second to none.
Instead of succumbing to the “last chance” emails, I propose we go explore a local thrift store, vendor fair, small independent shop or even our own closets. Trust me, the best things come with a little history, a touch of character, and maybe even a bit of dust.
Because the best things in life—those that bring joy, laughter, and connection—can’t be bought on Amazon. Go ahead, take the leap. Your friends (and the planet) will thank you! And who knows? You might find a little piece of yourself along the way, too.